How to Avoid Toxic People
Accept it or not, people have a humongous impact on our life as they are a crucial part in our world. Whether they are good or bad, they affect us dramatically.
We should select the people whom we live, interact and communicate with because as long as they are good, kind and positive, they will affect our mindset positively.
You need to surround yourself with good, positive and tough mindset people if you want to increase the chances of your success.
As the influential people always refer to that if you get a long with 5 successful people, you will be the sixth. If you surround yourself with rich people, you will rich
On the other side, these types of toxic people can ruin all your attempts to achieve what you dream of.
Negative mindset will affect you immensely, and this is the last thing you want to accomplish your big goal.
You need a builder not a destroyer. That’s exactly why you should kick off the toxic people out of your life.
But HOW?
They are still a part of our world. They are inside our community, work and even home.
Not any more, here we are to offer you some steps to erase this chapter from your life book endlessly.
Let’s talk nitty-gritty
How to Avoid the Toxic People?
We are not in a position of selecting the people around. Therefore, we can definitely choose our circle and who exactly will be in it.
Here are some techniques you need to follow to avoid toxic people from your life.
Keep a poker face
Stress can kill you. Every time you feel nervous or stressed you lose millions of seconds of happiness.
Train yourself to keep calm and quite when you see somebody you dislike. Don’t make him/her affects your temper.
And don’t let them approach you anyhow.
By keeping a poker face every time you meet them, this will deliver your message deliberately, without saying a word. This will say in a silence mood ” I don’t want you in my life”.
Stay away from specific situations
It’s a common sense, every situation you know that you may meet this person or will interact with him/her, try to avoid it.
I am fully aware that there are some situations are unavoidable, like in business or school. Try hard to stay calm and wear on your poker face and do the job and leave fast.
In some parties or other places, you may be compelled to meet some people you don’t like.
It’s normal, but you can try hard to avoid the situation that may gather you together.
Set your boundaries
Every one of us has his own boundaries. Setting you own limits are more important than anything else in your life. You have to keep your personal space free from toxic people.
Meeting some people, you are not like gives a feeling of weirdness, and produces negative energy. We need to get rid of it to partially live a stress-free life.
Draw your boundaries and prevent anyone to cross it will be massively beneficial.
Ignore the person
Ignoring is an art, you need to learn. Not anything in your life needs you to response to it. Keep in mind ” Don’t react, it’s not important”.
Specifically ignoring someone who irritates you, and makes you uncomfortable, it seems like your self-right is to ignore him immediately.
Just imagine that he is not there, he is not existing in this world.
Walk away from him/her, and enjoy your time with the people you like, the people who bring out the best of you, not the kind of toxic people who brings out everything is bad in you.
They are called toxic for a reason.
No shame, call for help
Most of the cases having a third person watching the situation may help you drastically in this matter as he will see better the whole matter from a distant.
He may advice you how not to be stressed, or how to keep your calmness through tough situations.
Be sure he is trusted, and you feel comfortable with him.
He will guide you not to be so blunt or harsh and to do what you want without hurting others.
Note Aside: Stay away from hurting others even if they are toxic people, it will be so mean.
Do it for your sake, not the sake of others.
Keep your cool manners.
Keep your genuine Positive Attitude
We are now figuring out some techniques to keep your positivity.
If you are surrounded with bad people, toxic, your energy will be drained.
And negativity will find its way through your head, and this will affect dramatically your mindset.
If negativity takes control over your life because of some people who really don’t like you, you will be miserable and live in mediocre.
Keep your positive mindset always turn on, don’t let anybody ruin it for you.
Looking always at the bright side and learn the art of ignoring.
Ignore every situation, every person that may spoil your life.
Last but not the least, focus more on YOU. Set your goals and concentrate more on these goals.
That what really matters.
Don’t let others drain your energy or give them the permission to conquer your mind with their negativity. You are a way more far from them. You’re unique and one- of -a kind.
Hang in there and fight for your freedom and your will power.
You should do this to make your life healthier and more comfortable.
That really accounts.